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| 00:01:09 | [ Intel bong ]
[girl crying] I'M SO OVER IT.
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| 00:03:21 | I was open-minded about being with jeff and
kelsie,
but it's definitely not for me.
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| 00:03:24 | I'm not willing to share him with anybody
else.
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| 00:03:27 | I am actually picking jeff upfrom kelsie's
house.
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| 00:03:32 | Today, jeff and I are goingto a festival
in seattle.
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| 00:03:37 | It's just gonna be the two of us.
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| 00:03:46 | Everything mattered before I met you.
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| 00:03:48 | Now nothing matters.
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| 00:03:50 | Ouch. what a pain.
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| 00:03:52 | [chuckling]
I thought you loved me.
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| 00:03:55 | You've always been in love with me,
and you will always be in love with me.
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| 00:03:58 | And you're gonna realize some day
HOW MUCH YOU [bleep]ED UP.
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| 00:04:00 | I mean, you love me and got another girl
pregnant!
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| 00:04:03 | Ultimate betrayal!
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| 00:04:06 | I love you.
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| 00:04:07 | [bleep] YOU.
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| 00:04:07 | Why you got to be all defensive all the time?
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| 00:04:10 | Because I love you,
BUT I'M VERY [bleep]ING PISSED OFF AT YOU.
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| 00:04:13 | Maybe if we broke up, you would be with me?
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| 00:04:16 | If she doesn't have a kid, yeah!
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| 00:04:19 | But I would want to take it slow.
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| 00:04:20 | I would want it to be different than last
time.
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| 00:04:24 | No!
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| 00:04:25 | No? really?
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| 00:04:27 | I DO LOVE YOU, BUT, YOU KNOW, I GOTTA [bleep]--
You don't want to hold my hand?
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| 00:04:31 | Just be friends and hold hands.
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| 00:04:33 | Okay?
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| 00:04:55 | I want to dance!
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| 00:05:04 | Hey, come back.
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| 00:05:07 | ..
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| 00:05:10 | Come back to what?
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| 00:05:10 | Come back to you and your pregnant girlfriend?
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| 00:05:14 | No, just-- you know--
what do you want me to come back to?
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| 00:05:18 | ..your happiness.
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| 00:05:20 | The happiness I used to give you.
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| 00:05:23 | That happiness doesn't exist anymore.
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| 00:05:25 | No? no.
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| 00:05:27 | I'm not gonna be with you when you're with
her.
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| 00:05:30 | I mean, I love you.
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| 00:05:31 | I wanted you back. that is the truth.
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| 00:05:33 | I did. I did.
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| 00:05:35 | You didn't!
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| 00:05:36 | Otherwise we would be together!
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| 00:05:38 | All I can say when it boils down to everything
is I love you.
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| 00:05:42 | And I love you too, but that doesn't matter
anymore.
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| 00:05:45 | [cell phone ringing]
I hate you right now!
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| 00:05:51 | It's supposed to be just jeff and I hanging
out,
then he got a call from kelsie.
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| 00:05:57 | What's up?
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| 00:05:58 | We're meeting at the grassy hill?
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| 00:06:00 | Okay. all right, babe.
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| 00:06:01 | I love you. I'll be right there.
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| 00:06:02 | She's here. I want to chill with her.
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| 00:06:05 | Why can't you get along with us?
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| 00:06:06 | Dude, when do I never get along with you
guys?
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| 00:06:14 | Oh, there you are.
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| 00:06:15 | What's up?not much.
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| 00:06:17 | (Felecia) TWO MINUTES BEFORE THAT,
He was holding my hand and kissing me.
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| 00:06:21 | And then, as soon as she got there,
it was like it never happened.
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| 00:06:26 | Whatever.
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| 00:06:27 | How do you feel?
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| 00:06:28 | I feel like kelsie completely disregarded
my feelings,
and now she's pregnant having your kid.
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| 00:06:33 | How would anybody feel in that situation?
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| 00:06:36 | Not good.
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| 00:06:37 | I totally understand why you feel that way
completely.
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| 00:06:40 | And you're still telling me that you love
me.
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| 00:06:41 | I tell her I still have feelings for you.
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| 00:06:44 | I thought all of us could be together.
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| 00:06:46 | Yeah, it is a love triangle,
but we're not, like, all trilingually together.
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| 00:06:51 | You keep saying to me you love me,
you want to be with me,
but you can't be with me and kelsie.
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| 00:06:56 | What's wrong with kelsie?
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| 00:06:58 | !
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| 00:06:58 | There's nothing wrong with her!
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| 00:06:59 | Why is this not, like, happening?
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| 00:07:02 | I don't know.
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| 00:07:06 | No!
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| 00:07:11 | I tried to convey how I feel,
but, like, it's hard when they're standing
there
right in front of me holding hands
and telling me, like, I'm in the wrong
to feel how I feel.
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| 00:07:22 | I just don't want to deal with it anymore.
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| 00:07:25 | I'm so over it.
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| 00:07:26 | I'm not over it obviously,
BUT I'M OVER, LIKE, [bleep] TRYING TO DEAL
With it.
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| 00:07:38 | Hell yeah. I'm cool.
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| 00:07:40 | After the mall, I called jordan
and apologized for focusing my attention
on alyssa instead of her.
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| 00:07:46 | That's jordan outside right now.
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| 00:07:49 | I asked her to take her out to dinner.
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| 00:07:52 | She had to think about it,
but then she turned around and said it was
okay to go.
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| 00:07:57 | Hi.
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| 00:07:58 | Hey, what's good?you doing good?
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| 00:08:03 | Don't take me anywhere you took alyssa.
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| 00:08:06 | Why you say that?
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| 00:08:11 | it was my homeboy from
l.a.
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| 00:08:15 | All right.
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| 00:08:17 | It's looking plump just like your lips, girl.
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| 00:08:23 | Don't you-- oh, it's like that?
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| 00:08:24 | So, it's because of alyssa, right?
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| 00:08:26 | I mean, why, like--
you really, really do not want to move on
more physically with me just because of alyssa?
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| 00:08:34 | Yeah.
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| 00:08:35 | Me and alyssa are not even physical,
so why would you even want to hold back?
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| 00:08:39 | Physical, emotional, it's the same thing.
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| 00:08:42 | Who's that?
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| 00:08:43 | It's a blank number I don't answer blank
calls.
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| 00:08:47 | 'Cause you know--
what's up?
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| 00:08:50 | If you still continue to have feelings for
her
that it's gonna end us.
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| 00:08:55 | Why would you say that?
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| 00:08:57 | You think I'm gonna sit here
while you are still stuck on her forever?
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| 00:09:01 | I'm with you. I'm with you right here.
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| 00:09:04 | Like honestly, look.
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| 00:09:05 | I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna front.
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| 00:09:06 | ..
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| 00:09:13 | Woo! it's cold out here.
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| 00:09:18 | I had a good time with you, though.
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| 00:09:23 | [cell phone rings]
Man, these people are--
mmm. that's so good.
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| 00:09:47 | It was too good.
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| 00:09:52 | (Lazar) JORDAN'S EASY.
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| 00:09:53 | I dropped a little charm on her and won her
back.
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| 00:09:56 | Alyssa? oh, I got to call her.
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| 00:10:02 | [Alyssa on phone] Hello?
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| 00:10:03 | All right, what's good? hey.
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| 00:10:05 | You're still down for tonight, right?
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| 00:10:07 | Probably hang out and shoot some pool
and something like that, you know?
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| 00:10:11 | Okay.
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| 00:10:11 | Alyssa just got off of work right now
and she's gonna meet me at the pool place.
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| 00:10:16 | Hey.what's good?
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| 00:10:18 | Nothing.
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| 00:10:23 | What happened when you guys left the mall?
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| 00:10:25 | She was like hot. like hot.
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| 00:10:28 | Mad as hell at me, like, for real.
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| 00:10:30 | She was mad at me and you.
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| 00:10:32 | But I didn't do anything.
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| 00:10:33 | I know that.
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| 00:10:34 | I told her you was just shopping.
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| 00:10:35 | I told her I was just saying hi to you,
so she was just pissed, man.
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| 00:10:39 | So, what's up?
|
| 00:10:39 | You get a little jealous or what?
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| 00:10:41 | Jealous? from what?
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| 00:10:42 | Why would I be jealous? why would I be jealous?
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| 00:10:46 | Because, look,
you have never seen me with any other girl
out in public like that ever.
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| 00:10:52 | Plenty of people will see me and you in public,
and they'll think we're just the cutest couple
in the world.
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| 00:10:55 | I'm like that was
long ago.
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| 00:10:58 | You can still have a boyfriend,
but you can still have feelings for me.
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| 00:11:01 | No, I'm okay. let's get along.
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| 00:11:03 | For real, let's get along.
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| 00:11:05 | (Shay) OH, MY GOSH.
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| 00:11:07 | Stop! go shoot!
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| 00:11:09 | Ugh!
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| 00:11:11 | (Lazar) HELL, YEAH, ALYSSA STILL HAS FEELINGS
For me.
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| 00:11:14 | I know she does.
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| 00:11:15 | I like to hang out with jordan,
but I'm gonna do everything within in my
power
to keep alyssa around.
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| 00:11:20 | Bye.
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| 00:11:23 | Mmm!
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| 00:11:24 | Okay. your long hugs.
|
| 00:11:26 | Uh, I'ma holler at you, all right?
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| 00:11:27 | Okay, bye. drive safe.
|
| 00:11:28 | Be safe, all right?
|
| 00:11:30 | You know how you're acting right now?
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| 00:11:31 | I hate to be mad, but you acting
LIKE A REAL [bleep] RIGHT NOW.
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| 00:15:02 | [girl crying] I'M SO OVER IT.
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| 00:15:03 | You know howto get there, right?
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| 00:15:05 | (Lazar)TODAY, ME AND JORDAN ARE GONNA HANG
Out.
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| 00:15:08 | Jordan fills that void
when I'm not around with alyssa.
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| 00:15:17 | Take it. take it, girl.
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| 00:15:22 | I--i have a long tongue. right there.
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| 00:15:25 | That's a disgusting sight.
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| 00:15:27 | My tongue was next
to your tongue the other night.
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| 00:15:30 | Remember that?
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| 00:15:31 | When you gave me my second kiss finally?
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| 00:15:33 | Alyssa's too, huh?
|
| 00:15:34 | What are you talking about?
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| 00:15:35 | Why do you bring up alyssa?
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| 00:15:36 | You're the only girl I've kissed pretty much
just after her.
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| 00:15:40 | Oh, "pretty much"? ha ha, pretty much.
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| 00:15:42 | Maybe if you do get more physical, maybe
intimate,
then I can get my mind off alyssa.
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| 00:15:47 | Only because, look--
well, you know--
because after you kissed me that night,
I honestly was not thinking about alyssa.
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| 00:15:52 | I was really happy.
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| 00:15:53 | I was really happy. real happy.
|
| 00:15:55 | Well, just think,
you could be thinking like that all the time,
if you just let go of her.
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| 00:16:01 | I feel you need to make your choice,
right here, right now.
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| 00:16:06 | You can either be with me
or be with her.
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| 00:16:10 | Please do not do this to me rht now.
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| 00:16:12 | Please. just please do not.
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| 00:16:13 | I mean, when are you gonna make the decision?
|
| 00:16:14 | just give me some
time!
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| 00:16:16 | Respect that and give me some time!
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| 00:16:17 | Please that's all I'm asking for.
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| 00:16:18 | What do you need, like, five years?
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| 00:16:20 | I'm telling you, I'm leaving.
|
| 00:16:26 | You know how you're acting right now?
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| 00:16:27 | I hate to be mad, but you're acting
LIKE A REAL [bleep] RIGHT NOW.
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| 00:16:30 | You're acting like-- I'm serious.
|
| 00:16:32 | I'm sorry, but you are.
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| 00:16:33 | Please, why you putting a wall in front of
me?
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| 00:16:35 | You're putting a wall up right now.
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| 00:16:40 | Are you serious?
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| 00:16:41 | Jordan. jordan, man!
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| 00:16:43 | You serious? stop.
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| 00:16:44 | Stop, man.
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| 00:16:45 | You are making it worse for yourself.
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| 00:16:46 | Come on, where are you-- jordan!
|
| 00:16:49 | Are you for real? are you for real?
|
| 00:16:54 | Okay. all right, man.
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| 00:16:56 | [bleep], MAN. AAH!
|
| 00:17:05 | After jordan broke up with me,
I went to go and talk to my family.
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| 00:17:09 | They give me the best advice.
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| 00:17:13 | Uh, jordan.
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| 00:17:16 | I mean, what did she
say?
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| 00:17:19 | She was just like you either have
to choose me or choose alyssa.
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| 00:17:23 | She just took off and left.
|
| 00:17:24 | Like literally took off and left.
|
| 00:17:26 | I mean, I kind of told her--
I SAID SHE WAS KIND OF ACTING LIKE A [bleep].
|
| 00:17:30 | Ooh.
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| 00:17:31 | I'm been trying to call her over and over
and over
and over and over again and she hasn't answered
my calls.
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| 00:17:35 | And I'm like, she's the only other girl after
alyssa
that I can actually go through
and try to start something with.
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| 00:17:41 | Don't you think I'm doing good
by keeping it real with jordan at least?
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| 00:17:43 | Should have told her what she want to hear
"
and lie?
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| 00:17:48 | I don't think you'd like jordan to tell you
in detail
feelings she may have for someone else.
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| 00:17:52 | That's hard to take.
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| 00:17:53 | So, what's gonna happen if I choose jordan,
right,
and everything's all good, everything's all
lovey-dovey,
but then alyssa comes around like, "you know
what?
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| 00:17:58 | I broke up with my
boyfriend.
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| 00:18:01 | "You know, I really made a mistake.
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| 00:18:03 | "
alyssa has a boyfriend,
yeah.
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| 00:18:06 | Well, that should been easy then.
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| 00:18:07 | I mean, if she got a boyfriend, then, you
know--
(Gail) YEAH, YOU NEED TO FORGET HER.
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| 00:18:11 | Nah, man.
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| 00:18:11 | You can still have feelings for her, but--
uh, that's rough.
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| 00:18:15 | She's going on, and I think maybe
you should go on too.
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| 00:18:20 | I don't know, man. it's hard.
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| 00:18:23 | I appreciate it.
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| 00:18:25 | All right, man. good luck.
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| 00:18:27 | All right.
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| 00:18:28 | My mom said I should definitely give up on
alyssa,
but my heart is towards alyssa and jordan.
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| 00:18:34 | Honestly, I still need more time.
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| 00:18:36 | I got to follow my heart in both directions.
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| 00:18:44 | The festival was a disaster.
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| 00:18:45 | Kelsie showed up and I became the third wheel.
|
| 00:18:47 | What's been going on?
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| 00:18:49 | I went to hempfestwith jeff,
and it was good at first, we were hanging
out
and, like, dancing around and stuff,
we made out, and then kelsie showed up
and I was just kind of like cut off.
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| 00:19:03 | Move on!
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| 00:19:04 | Jeff sucks.
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| 00:19:06 | HE IS A PIECE OF [bleep].
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| 00:19:07 | He's no good, nothing but a loser,
and that's all he's ever gonna be.
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| 00:19:12 | You've made him your whole everything.
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| 00:19:16 | He was.
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| 00:19:18 | But you can't forget about felecia.
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| 00:19:21 | It hurts me to see that man hurt you.
|
| 00:19:23 | I hate him,
and that's a strong word,
but what he did to you?
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| 00:19:29 | Never in my life will I forgive him.
|
| 00:19:36 | You could have such an awesome person
that will treat you like the queen
that you should be treated.
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| 00:19:43 | Mom.
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| 00:19:44 | Ohh. I love you.
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| 00:19:46 | I love you too.
|
| 00:19:50 | [sniffling and chuckling]
Push you downthe stairs.
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| 00:20:00 | You would.
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| 00:20:00 | Today, I need to talk to jeff
because I have some things to get off my
chest.
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| 00:20:05 | So, are you and kelsie getting married?
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| 00:20:08 | Me and kelsie getting married?
|
| 00:20:10 | Mm-hmm.
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| 00:20:11 | No.
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| 00:20:11 | Well, I'm gonna get married some day.
|
| 00:20:15 | I'm not your girlfriend anymore.
|
| 00:20:17 | That's your fault.
|
| 00:20:18 | Why don't you try to change that?
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| 00:20:22 | I had really high hopes
that we were gonna get back together,
but all you wanted was for me
to get with you and kelsie,
and that's not getting back together with
you.
|
| 00:20:31 | Dude, am I not nice to you?
|
| 00:20:32 | Do I not do great things for you?
|
| 00:20:34 | It doesn't matter.
|
| 00:20:35 | If I was still pregnant right now,
you would have two babies on the way,
from two different girls!
|
| 00:20:40 | I didn't have my kid.
|
| 00:20:42 | That was supposed to be a mutual agreement.
|
| 00:20:44 | That was your choice and this is your choice
now too.
|
| 00:20:47 | You're right.
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| 00:20:48 | IT'S ALL [bleep] MY CHOICE.
|
| 00:20:51 | I don't want a girlfriend and a boyfriend.
|
| 00:20:54 | I want somebody to give me the love I deserve.
|
| 00:20:58 | Why can't I do that?
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| 00:20:59 | Because you're giving it to somebody else.
|
| 00:21:02 | And because it's, like--
that's, like, the most painful feeling in
the world,
to just, like, not be able to be with
the person that you love.
|
| 00:21:12 | I messed up. and I realize that.
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| 00:21:15 | I [bleep]ED UP, AND I CHANGED.
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| 00:21:17 | AND I [bleep]ED UP AND I'M CHANGING.
|
| 00:21:19 | And it doesn't matter because you're having
a kid
with somebody else.
|
| 00:21:23 | It's, like, I love you, man, you know?
|
| 00:21:26 | I love you too.
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| 00:21:28 | But it will never be what it was.
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| 00:21:39 | (Felecia) IT WAS HARD TO SAY THESE THINGS
Because he made it real.
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| 00:21:43 | It's over.
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| 00:21:47 | So this is ol' boy right here, okay.
|
| 00:21:49 | Yeah, sean.
|
| 00:21:51 | How are you enjoying alyssa?
|
| 00:25:58 | [girl crying] I'M SO OVER IT.
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| 00:26:03 | My parents want me to cut tieswith alyssa
and be with jordan.
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| 00:26:06 | But before I do that, I'ma try my best one
last time
to get back with alyssa.
|
| 00:26:17 | Today's alyssa's birthday.
|
| 00:26:18 | I'ma surprise her with some flowers, some
candy,
show her that I still care for her and i
still love her.
|
| 00:26:28 | I was looking forsome good flowers
for a girl's birthday.
|
| 00:26:31 | You said it's for your girlfriend, or--
she's my ex, so I'm trying to, you know,
win her back.
|
| 00:26:35 | Well, obviously you can do roses.
|
| 00:26:39 | What's the price?
|
| 00:26:40 | A dozen is $75.
|
| 00:26:42 | $75? Damn!
|
| 00:26:43 | You wanna win her back, remember?
|
| 00:26:47 | Well, that's true, that's true.
|
| 00:26:50 | If--if that works.
|
| 00:26:52 | Two, four-- there you go.
|
| 00:26:54 | Okay. great.
|
| 00:26:56 | ..
|
| 00:26:59 | Alyssa has no idea that I'm coming over.
|
| 00:27:06 | What's up, alyssa?
|
| 00:27:08 | Now look.
|
| 00:27:09 | I just wanted to wish you a happy birthday.
|
| 00:27:11 | Sean's here right now.
|
| 00:27:13 | WORD. [chuckles uneasily] DO YOU SEE THIS?
|
| 00:27:15 | Wow.
|
| 00:27:17 | Are you serious right now? I'm dead serious.
|
| 00:27:22 | What's up with it, man?
|
| 00:27:24 | What's popping?
|
| 00:27:26 | So this is ol' boy right here, okay.
|
| 00:27:27 | Yeah, sean.
|
| 00:27:29 | How are you enjoying alyssa?
|
| 00:27:32 | She aat girlfriend?
|
| 00:27:33 | Yeah. word.
|
| 00:27:34 | Lazar, why-- okay, never mind.
|
| 00:27:36 | Why what?
|
| 00:27:37 | Why would you bring that right now?
|
| 00:27:39 | I came to give you your birthday present
and ask you if you will be back with me.
|
| 00:27:43 | And that's real.
|
| 00:27:46 | Are you serious?
|
| 00:27:47 | It's like you shut everything down
that we had in the past for real.
|
| 00:27:50 | People break up and move on.
|
| 00:27:52 | And I happen to be one of those kind of people.
|
| 00:27:54 | You didn't.
|
| 00:27:55 | I'm in love with him. for real?
|
| 00:27:57 | Yes. you're serious?
|
| 00:27:59 | Yes.
|
| 00:28:01 | I think honestly, you got with him
to fill the void of what we had.
|
| 00:28:04 | Alyssa, I know you so well that I know when
you friend--
I know when you're trying to play the role
for somebody else.
|
| 00:28:09 | You can't sit here and tell me you know me,
you know me.
|
| 00:28:12 | Lazar, people change, people mature.
|
| 00:28:14 | People don't change.
|
| 00:28:16 | Obviously, you haven't changed.
|
| 00:28:18 | so you don't
know me.
|
| 00:28:22 | At all.
|
| 00:28:28 | You came over
for my birthday "supposedly"--
I'm not--
and you're going crazy in my house.
|
| 00:28:33 | I'm not even gonna talk about it no more.
|
| 00:28:36 | Lazar!
|
| 00:28:37 | Happy birthday.
|
| 00:28:44 | I really still thought there'd be a chance.
|
| 00:28:46 | I put so much effort, time, and money
in trying to get alyssa back.
|
| 00:28:52 | But she chose sean over me.
|
| 00:28:57 | Now that alyssa's completely out of the picture,
I'ma do my best to get jordan back.
|
| 00:29:02 | [dialing phone]
[Jordan on phone] Hey, you missed jordan,
I'll get back to you.
|
| 00:29:06 | Jordan is not talking to me right now.
|
| 00:29:10 | [sighs]
[Jordan on phone] Hello?
|
| 00:29:14 | Jordan, jordan, please tell me.
|
| 00:29:15 | Are you willing to talk to me right now or
not?
|
| 00:29:19 | [Jordan hangs up phone]
At this point, I don't have alyssa or jordan.
|
| 00:29:23 | I'm just stuck with nobody.
|
| 00:29:30 | 'Sup, 'sup, 'sup?
|
| 00:29:32 | What's going on, dude?
|
| 00:29:33 | I got a job at garlic jim's, dude.
|
| 00:29:35 | I'm only doing it for a little bit, though.
|
| 00:29:37 | It's great that you got a job
and you need to definitelyget one that you
can hold
when you haveto support a child.
|
| 00:29:41 | You guys are gonna be therefor me, right,
yeah?
|
| 00:29:45 | Yeah.no felicia.
|
| 00:29:47 | There's still always gonna be feelings between
me and felicia.
|
| 00:29:49 | But you have to think about your little kid,
though, dude.
|
| 00:29:52 | Like, what is it gonna take if you guys keep
this going?
|
| 00:29:56 | But what's wrong with that?
|
| 00:29:57 | If he had three parents that loved them
instead of just two or one?
|
| 00:30:01 | Well, you're gonna see
it's not about you or your relationship.
|
| 00:30:04 | It's gonna be about the child.
|
| 00:30:06 | My love triangle, it didn't work out
because felicia's not ready for something
like that.
|
| 00:30:10 | It's way beyond her.
|
| 00:30:12 | I'll see you guys. all right, man.
|
| 00:30:14 | [sighs]
I would personally love both girls just to
love me.
|
| 00:30:18 | And it just upsets me that we can't work
out.
|
| 00:30:27 | I'm packing up the apartmentjeff and I used
to share.
|
| 00:30:31 | [groans]
And I found some stuff that was his.
|
| 00:30:36 | Shirt, and a hat.
|
| 00:30:37 | Stuffed animals that he doesn't even want.
|
| 00:30:41 | I have a whole bunch of pictures.
|
| 00:30:45 | Oh, ha ha. this is a good one.
|
| 00:30:48 | It's just a picture of him sleeping.
|
| 00:30:50 | It was my favorite picture of jeff and i
stabbed it.
|
| 00:30:56 | I'm driving over to jeff's
and I'm going to give him the stuff that
was his.
|
| 00:30:59 | That is definitely a cleansing process.
|
| 00:31:09 | 'Sup?
|
| 00:31:11 | What's that box?
|
| 00:31:12 | It's your stuff.
|
| 00:31:14 | My stuff? some of your stuff.
|
| 00:31:16 | Sweet. I wanna look at them.
|
| 00:31:21 | Oh!
|
| 00:31:22 | Not that one. I look hot in that picture.
|
| 00:31:26 | Sick.
|
| 00:31:29 | Did I take that picture or did you?
|
| 00:31:32 | I did.
|
| 00:31:33 | Sick.
|
| 00:31:34 | Yeah, dude. awesome, thank you.
|
| 00:31:36 | (Felicia) HE TOOK THE BOX AND WALKED AWAY.
|
| 00:31:40 | He didn't seem like he cared at all.
|
| 00:31:42 | He just proved my point.
|
| 00:31:44 | The relationship should be over.
|
| 00:31:48 | COME HERE. [giggles]
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|
| 00:34:57 | Not sure why it's called a "sleep" over.
|
| 00:34:59 | Yeah!
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| 00:36:39 | [girl crying] I'M SO OVER IT.
|
| 00:36:42 | Now that alyssa'scompletely out of the picture,
my only choice isto try to get jordan back.
|
| 00:36:48 | It's been three weeks since I've seen her.
|
| 00:36:51 | I have no idea what she's thinking.
|
| 00:36:54 | [Jordan on phone] Hey, you missed jordan.
|
| 00:36:55 | Leave me your name and number and I'll get
back to you soon.
|
| 00:36:57 | Without jordan within my life, it feels empty.
|
| 00:37:05 | Tonight, I am going over to jordan's house.
|
| 00:37:08 | I just started talking to her,
I started really expressing my emotions.
|
| 00:37:12 | I apologized, I don't want to lose her.
|
| 00:37:15 | And the good thing is, she accepted.
|
| 00:37:18 | It's been about a month
since alyssa's been out of my life.
|
| 00:37:21 | I feel sad, but at the same time,
I just really trying to, you know, block
it out.
|
| 00:37:29 | Hi. hello.
|
| 00:37:31 | Nice to meet you. nice to meet you too.
|
| 00:37:33 | How are you doing?
|
| 00:37:34 | How are you doing? come on in.
|
| 00:37:37 | What's up?buster. I'm good.
|
| 00:37:41 | Do you like catfish?
|
| 00:37:43 | Uh, of course.
|
| 00:37:45 | I even made you a cake.
|
| 00:37:47 | You even made me a cake? stop lying!
|
| 00:37:49 | [laughs]
Man, I'm about to move in here
or something like that, real talk.
|
| 00:37:54 | [laughter]
..
|
| 00:37:57 | So what's up with alyssa?
|
| 00:37:58 | Is she still around or is she still in your
life, or--
no, alyssa's-- she out of my life.
|
| 00:38:03 | She's gone.
|
| 00:38:04 | That's right, that's why I'm here with jordan.
|
| 00:38:07 | I'm focusing all my time and my effort on
her
to show her that I really care for her,
opposed to alyssa.
|
| 00:38:13 | So you told herto take a hike.
|
| 00:38:16 | Oh, man--
ah, so is that why?
|
| 00:38:20 | I realize that I have a lot,
a lot of deep feelings for jordan,
I mean, a lot.
|
| 00:38:24 | You know, I might has well just pursue it.
|
| 00:38:26 | So that's why I picked jordan over alyssa.
|
| 00:38:28 | I'll be good to her.
|
| 00:38:30 | She's beautiful, yeah. she's beautiful.
|
| 00:38:33 | I think you guys make a really cute couple.
|
| 00:38:36 | We hope to see more of you, huh, jordan?
|
| 00:38:40 | Yes, we do.
|
| 00:38:41 | You will. you will.
|
| 00:38:43 | Come on, give me a hug. see ya.
|
| 00:38:47 | [sighs] THANK YOU FOR BEING OVER.
|
| 00:38:49 | And I appreciate you inviting me over, man.
|
| 00:38:51 | Finally meet your moms and all that.
|
| 00:38:54 | I will holler at you.
|
| 00:38:58 | Okay.
|
| 00:38:59 | Later, all right?
|
| 00:39:00 | Know what I mean? let me kiss on the cheek.
|
| 00:39:02 | Know what I mean?
|
| 00:39:03 | All right. holler me, all right?
|
| 00:39:05 | (Lazar) I THINK THAT WENT GOOD. REAL GOOD.
|
| 00:39:09 | [trilling]
And I hope to continue to build on
my relationship with jordan.
|
| 00:39:15 | I like being in a love triangle because it
gives me my options.
|
| 00:39:18 | But regardless of everything that went on,
I think I gotta put my full attention to
one girl.
|
| 00:39:40 | Right now, I'm gonna go on a date with a
guy I met online.
|
| 00:39:43 | I'm sort of nervous.
|
| 00:39:45 | it's time to
move on.
|
| 00:39:52 | You're such a gentleman, thank you.
|
| 00:39:55 | What do you look forin guys?
|
| 00:39:57 | I don't really have a type, I just, you know--
which is good. yeah.
|
| 00:40:00 | If you like, you like. yeah.
|
| 00:40:01 | And if you get along with somebody, then
whatever.
|
| 00:40:03 | Are you a player?
|
| 00:40:05 | All the time.
|
| 00:40:06 | No, but really.
|
| 00:40:06 | My last girlfriend was six months ago.
|
| 00:40:09 | Mm.
|
| 00:40:10 | Why didn't it work out?
|
| 00:40:11 | I got dumped.
|
| 00:40:13 | Good reason.
|
| 00:40:14 | What was your last boyfriend like?
|
| 00:40:16 | Messed up.
|
| 00:40:18 | He broke up with me
and got another girlfriend.
|
| 00:40:21 | Mm-hmm.
|
| 00:40:21 | Oh, so he was missing out, then.
|
| 00:40:24 | On what?
|
| 00:40:25 | You.
|
| 00:40:26 | Oh. that was cute.
|
| 00:40:28 | [giggles]
(Felecia) I THINK THE DATE WENT WELL.
|
| 00:40:34 | Isaac seems like a really awesome guy.
|
| 00:40:37 | Thank you. oh, you're welcome.
|
| 00:40:46 | COME HERE. [giggles]
Thanks for taking me out. oh, you're welcome.
|
| 00:40:54 | All right, have a good night.
|
| 00:40:56 | You too.
|
| 00:40:59 | I can definitely get used to having somebody
take me out
and treat me well.
|
| 00:41:04 | I'm definitely gonna hang out with him again.
|
| 00:41:07 | I'm so over love triangles.
|
| 00:41:09 | No more dating people with girlfriends.
|
| 00:41:30 | www.captionmax.com
Captioning byCaptionMax www.captionmax.com
- Aren't you lucky?
|
| 00:42:09 | You're a girl, but you don't have boobs.
|
| 00:42:11 | female narrator: MANY WOMEN WOULD LOVE
To have bigger breasts.
|
| 00:42:14 | - You have really big boobs. - I know.
|
| 00:42:16 | narrator: BUT WHAT'S IT LIKE WHEN YOU FEEL
Blessed
with too much of a good thing?
|
| 00:42:20 | - This cup absolutely does not fit you at
all.
|
| 00:42:22 | narrator: ON THIS EPISODE OFTRUE LIFE,
You'll meet three young women who believe
that being unusually top-heavy
is preventing them from finding happiness.
|
| 00:42:31 | - Having big boobs, it's a turn-off.
|
| 00:42:33 | narrator: SHANNON'S INSECURITIES ABOUT HER
Breasts
have made her uncomfortable around guys.
|
| 00:42:38 | - It was good to see you again.
|
| 00:42:40 | - Yeah. - see you.
|
| 00:42:42 | narrator: SHE'S RECENTLY STARTED WORKING
Out
to reduce her cup size,
but wonders if she'll see
the dramaresults she desires.
|
| 00:42:48 | - It's coming off but just really slowly.
|
| 00:42:51 | narrator: WILL SHANNON'S EXERCISE ROUTINE
Make a dent in her bustline,
or will she have to resort to surgery
to get the body she wants?
|
| 00:42:58 | - I just want them to be, like, more of a
manageable size.
|
| 00:43:01 | narrator: EBONY'S DISCOMFORT WITH HER BODY
Stems from the abuse she suffered as a teenager.
|
| 00:43:06 | - Ever since then, like, my self-esteem's
been--sorry.
|
| 00:43:11 | narrator: FED UP WITH HER MOTHER'S REFUSAL
..
|
| 00:43:15 | - You don't know how I feel, like--
- yes, I do.
|
| 00:43:18 | narrator: EBONY IS NOW TURNING
To a therapist for relief.
|
| 00:43:20 | - There's sort of trauma associated with
your breasts.
|
| 00:43:26 | - [sniffs]
narrator: WILL OPENING UP ABOUT HER DIFFICULT
Past
help ebony come to terms with her breast
size?
|
| 00:43:32 | - I hate feeling, like,
really lonely.
|
| 00:43:37 | narrator: REBECCA CAN'T STAND HER BIG BOOBS
And is determined to get breast reduction
surgery.
|
| 00:43:42 | - Yeah, pick them up; sew 'em up.
|
| 00:43:43 | narrator: BUT HER HUSBAND WANTS HER TO TRY
Less drastic alternatives
before going under the knife.
|
| 00:43:48 | - God, you have to lift to measure?
|
| 00:43:50 | That's disgusting.
|
| 00:43:51 | narrator: WILL REBECCA MAKE PEACE WITH HER
Figure
..
|
| 00:43:55 | - The proper clothing and the proper bra
isn't gonna help me when I take my clothes
off.
|
| 00:43:58 | narrator: OR WILL SHE OPT FOR SURGERY
Despite her husband's doubts?
|
| 00:44:02 | - Surgery's here.
|
| 00:44:03 | The tiny steps might get me, like, here.
|
| 00:44:05 | narrator: THEY THINK DOWNSIZING THEIR BREASTS
Will be the key to their happiness.
|
| 00:44:10 | - I just want to be normal.
|
| 00:44:12 | narrator: ARE THEY RIGHT?
|
| 00:44:13 | Find out next ontrue life:
I don't like my large breasts.
|
| 00:44:16 | they're just
getting lower.
|
| 00:44:20 | [dramatic electronic music]
♪♪ ♪♪
|
| 00:44:34 | - it would be a lot easier if they were smaller.
|
| 00:44:37 | Yeah, I don't know about this shirt.
|
| 00:44:38 | My boobs stick out too much in this shirt.
|
| 00:44:40 | - Every time you wear that shirt,
guys just don't know how to act, you know?
|
| 00:44:44 | "
that's so old.
|
| 00:44:47 | Like, everybody comes up to me
AND SAYS STUPID [bleep] LIKE THAT.
|
| 00:44:50 | Like, I already know I have big boobs.
|
| 00:44:52 | You don't have to point it out all the time.
|
| 00:44:59 | - Let me see what bra you have,at least.
|
| 00:45:01 | - All right.
|
| 00:45:06 | - This is exactly what you don't want.
|
| 00:45:09 | This cup absolutely does not fit you at all.
|
| 00:45:12 | - My name is ebony, and I hate my boobs.
|
| 00:45:15 | - I'm gonna just start with this bra.
|
| 00:45:17 | Okay, let's do some adjusting.
|
| 00:45:18 | - All right.
|
| 00:45:19 | - Oh, that looks beautiful on you.
|
| 00:45:21 | - My breasts are so big, I can't wear normal
clothes.
|
| 00:45:24 | Finding a bra that is cute and that fits
is nearly impossible.
|
| 00:45:28 | It'd be a lot easier if my breasts were smaller.
|
| 00:45:33 | ..
|
| 00:45:39 | But it's always negative attention.
|
| 00:45:58 | - I don't know why you surprised.
|
| 00:45:59 | That happens every time.
|
| 00:46:06 | - I don't lik t negative attention
because it always reminds me of what happened
to me.
|
| 00:46:13 | I started developing boobs when I was 12.
|
| 00:46:16 | My first bra was a 34c,
and I would always outgrow a bra,
like,very thremonths.
|
| 00:46:21 | But instead of that being a happy time
where I was turning into a woman,
it became a really horrible time.
|
| 00:46:27 | Somebody that I really trusted was touching
me inappropriately,
and ever since then, like, my self-esteem's
been--sorry.
|
| 00:46:48 | So what was the first thing you noticed about
me
when you met me?
|
| 00:46:52 | - Mm, I'm not even gonna lie.
|
| 00:46:55 | Your breasts were pretty big.
|
| 00:46:58 | [both laugh]
- Let me show you my bras.
|
| 00:47:01 | - Dang!
|
| 00:47:02 | What size is it, even?
|
| 00:47:04 | 36Ff.
|
| 00:47:06 | - My breast size has been a major issue
in all of my relationships.
|
| 00:47:10 | I try not to be intimate.
|
| 00:47:12 | I just don't trust people with my body.
|
| 00:47:15 | I'll walk you to the door.
|
| 00:47:17 | I've been dating jonathan for months now,
and I worry that he'll be frustrated
with me not wanting to do anything.
|
| 00:47:23 | - Mm-hmm. - bye.
|
| 00:47:25 | I'll see you.
|
| 00:47:26 | - You see how far back we are 'cause of them?
|
| 00:47:28 | - [sighs] SHUT UP. - DANG.
|
| 00:47:37 | - I got a text from jonathan saying
that he couldn't make our little pre-valentine's
day date,
and I'm kind of disappointed because,
like, I was really looking forward to it.
|
| 00:47:46 | Things have gotten weird with us in the past
few weeks.
|
| 00:47:49 | He's, like, really shady,
and I feel like he's just blowing me off.
|
| 00:47:53 | The fact that jonathan keeps flaking on me
and stuff
just kind of makes me insecure,
and it kind of goes back to how I feel about
my boobs.
|
| 00:48:01 | [sniffs]
I hate feeling, like,
really lonely.
|
| 00:48:18 | - If anything's popping out, kelly is my
go-to girl.
|
| 00:48:22 | - Her boobs look amazing tonight.
|
| 00:48:24 | - Lift and separate.
|
| 00:48:31 | - Lord, we thank youfor this day
and for this foodthat's been prepared.
|
| 00:48:34 | - My name is shannon, and I have insanely
large boobs.
|
| 00:48:40 | What--why are you laughing?
|
| 00:48:42 | Why?
|
| 00:48:42 | Is there something on me?
|
| 00:48:45 | He starts laughing, and we both check our
boobs.
|
| 00:48:50 | Like, "oh, great, what's on"--
- "what did I spill on me now?" yeah.
|
| 00:48:53 | - All the girls in this family have big boobs.
|
| 00:48:57 | - I don't even notice it,'cause it's in the
no-see zone.
|
| 00:49:00 | - They like having big boobs
because it makes them feel womanly.
|
| 00:49:04 | I really do hate having big boobs.
|
| 00:49:08 | Growing up, I was such a tomboy,
but then boobs came in fourth grade.
|
| 00:49:14 | By eighth grade, I was a "dd".
|
| 00:49:16 | It was really hard for me to do physical
activities
because my boobs were dancing all over the
place.
|
| 00:49:26 | I started gaining weight when I quit sports.
|
| 00:49:29 | Not being active,
I've probably gone up two cup sizes
in the past couple years.
|
| 00:49:35 | Tonight I'm going to the starlight lounge
to see my friend perform.
|
| 00:49:41 | And our friend jonathan is also performing.
|
| 00:49:46 | I have a little bit of a crush on jonathan.
|
| 00:49:48 | I wouldn't make a move on him
because I do not have the guts to do that.
|
| 00:49:56 | It seems like a silly thing,
but my boobs have stopped me
from having any kind of dating life.
|
| 00:50:03 | Guys think that boobs my size are gross.
|
| 00:50:07 | [delicate acoustic guitar music]
♪♪ ♪♪
|
| 00:50:11 | - ♪♪ you go to your house ♪♪
|
| 00:50:15 | - jonathan is adorable
but kind of nerdy in a way that's, like,
really cute.
|
| 00:50:21 | - So if jonathan asked you outon a date,
would you say "yeah"?
|
| 00:50:25 | - Of course.
|
| 00:50:27 | Will that ever happen? no.
|
| 00:50:32 | Have you seen my chapstick?
|
| 00:50:33 | Can I show youthe most amazing chapstick
ever?
|
| 00:50:39 | - Good lord, it's--
- I just bought a new one.
|
| 00:50:41 | I had the other one for, like, a year and
a half.
|
| 00:50:43 | It's really big, so you just, like, go over
once, you know?
|
| 00:50:47 | I think for me to find a guy, I need to be
confident,
and in order for me to be confident,
I think I need my boobs to be smaller.
|
| 00:50:55 | So that's why I'm considering breast reduction
surgery.
|
| 00:50:59 | It was good to see you again.
|
| 00:51:00 | - Yeah.
|
| 00:51:01 | - See you.
|
| 00:51:04 | Bye, jonathan.
|
| 00:51:08 | Hey, mom.
|
| 00:51:08 | My mom's probably the only person
that doesn't want me to get a reduction.
|
| 00:51:14 | - I just don't believe in unnecessary surgery.
|
| 00:51:18 | I mean, it's not a quick fix.
|
| 00:51:20 | It's not an easy fix.
|
| 00:51:21 | I think that if, you know, if you exercise,
they'll be less of a nuisance then.
|
| 00:51:26 | - Doing it the healthy, natural way
isn't easy either, you know?
|
| 00:51:31 | There's no easy way.
|
| 00:51:32 | It's gonna be hard.
|
| 00:51:32 | You've been married for 30 years
with a man that's totally okay with you having
big boobs.
|
| 00:51:38 | I'm still out there looking for somebody.
|
| 00:51:42 | I feel like nowadays,
at least the boys that I'd be interested
in,
it's--it's a turn-off.
|
| 00:51:48 | - I do know how you feel
dealing with big boobs,
but, you know, try the natural route first.
|
| 00:51:54 | We'll see how things go.
|
| 00:51:57 | Okay? - agreed.
|
| 00:51:58 | I just don't think it's gonna work.
|
| 00:52:06 | - Well, it's kind of a shock to me
that you want a reduction.
|
| 00:52:10 | - They're just getting lower by the year.
|
| 00:52:13 | I'm 24 years old.
|
| 00:52:14 | This is not getting better.
|
| 00:52:15 | They're just getting lower.
|
| 00:52:21 | - My name is rebecca, and I live in new york.
|
| 00:52:26 | - Hey.
|
| 00:52:27 | - How are you? - good.
|
| 00:52:28 | - I run a fashion website with my husband,
daniel.
|
| 00:52:32 | What time will the models be here?
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| 00:52:34 | - The call is for 4:00.
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| 00:52:37 | - But having large breasts and working in
fashion
just don't mix.
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| 00:52:41 | Come on in. - come on in.
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| 00:52:43 | - I am surrounded by models.
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| 00:52:45 | That's beautiful.
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| 00:52:47 | They have the perfect bodies
and the perfect breasts.
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| 00:52:50 | It all seems to fit with them.
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| 00:52:52 | - Thank you so much for coming. - no problem.
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| 00:52:54 | - I'm sure there's someone out there
who's jealous of my big boobs;
that doesn't change how I feel about myself.
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| 00:53:00 | When I turned 16, my breasts started bothering
me.
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| 00:53:04 | I just randomly started gaining weight,
and they got much bigger.
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| 00:53:09 | So I went on a diet.
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| 00:53:12 | By age 21, I was actually really thin,
but I still had these large breasts.
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| 00:53:18 | They've kind of grown out of proportion
and have a mind of their own.
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| 00:53:22 | To me, they're, like, this crazy virus.
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| 00:53:24 | They're really making me miserable.
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| 00:53:27 | THIS GUY BETTER BE A [bleep] MIRACLE WORKER.
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| 00:53:29 | Today we have an appointment with a plastic
surgeon
who specializes in breast reduction.
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| 00:53:37 | - I'm just worried about whether or not
it's gonna change the way you feel about
yourself afterwards.
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| 00:53:42 | - That's obviously a concern.
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| 00:53:44 | Daniel and I have been married for six months,
and if I'm gonna keep the self-loathing,
I believe that eventually it will hurt my
marriage.
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| 00:53:52 | - You're rebecca? - hi, I'm rebecca.
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| 00:53:54 | - Hi, nice to meet you.i'm dr. david rapaport.
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| 00:53:56 | So let's have you step into the first treatment
room.
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| 00:53:59 | Get undressed from the waist up, and I'll
be right in.
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| 00:54:02 | - Okay.
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| 00:54:10 | - Let's look at your breasts first.
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| 00:54:15 | So why don't you put on your gown, and we'll
talk.
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| 00:54:17 | Okay, a reduction and a lift, in your case,
go together.
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| 00:54:21 | You said small "c". that's reasonable.
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| 00:54:23 | I might encourage you to say small to medium
"c"
because, you know, your frame is a good size.
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| 00:54:28 | - Can I get dressed and then come talk to
you about prices?
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| 00:54:31 | - Yes, you can.
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| 00:54:34 | - Knock, knock. - hi.
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| 00:54:35 | - Shoot at me. what are we looking at?
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| 00:54:37 | - Oh, numbers?
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| 00:54:38 | The fee for your operation would be $13,000.
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| 00:54:41 | The anesthesia fee I anticipate would be
$2,000.
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| 00:54:46 | - [sighs]
- Bye-bye. - bye.
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| 00:54:49 | [sighs]
It's, like, so much to process.
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| 00:54:56 | - Yeah.
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| 00:55:02 | The surgery being $15,000, like--
the price is really high for us right now.
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| 00:55:07 | Do you feel the surgery's your best option?
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| 00:55:13 | - I don't know.
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| 00:55:16 | I feel guilty.
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| 00:55:17 | - You shouldn't feel guilty.
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| 00:55:19 | - Of course I feel guilty.
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| 00:55:21 | - I mean, if it makes you happy--
- yeah, but if it makes, like, one part of
our life happier
and makes everything else miserable,
then what?
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| 00:55:30 | What if that, like, really harms our relationship?
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| 00:55:35 | I don't want to lose my husband
because of my issues towards myself.
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| 00:55:40 | But I don't think I'd ever be able to love
myself
with, you know, the big burden
of having these breasts kind of attached
to me.
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| 00:55:48 | - Is this gonna be enough?
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| 00:55:50 | - [sniffles]
I don't know.
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| 00:55:56 | - I mean, if you could just try it for me.
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| 00:55:59 | - Surgery's here.
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| 00:56:00 | The tiny steps might get me, like, here.
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